tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post6818867820136507892..comments2023-11-23T07:17:36.295-06:00Comments on Rapier's Wit: Single girl seeks cool as hell single manMarissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00640540606897546407noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-27737014069442266102010-03-08T04:22:45.145-06:002010-03-08T04:22:45.145-06:00I wonder. Which is worse? Having a crush on someon...I wonder. Which is worse? Having a crush on someone that's on the other side of the country, or having a crush that's local but who happens to be in a relationship? I really don't know, I'd think it to be a pretty tough call, honestly. (And yeah, I'm kinda in that latter situation currently, but it's not as bad as usual for other reasons)Nathan Wind as Cochesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13971309757991750666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-75823813181346796472010-02-21T08:18:44.946-06:002010-02-21T08:18:44.946-06:00You have a very funny and entertaining spirit, wil...You have a very funny and entertaining spirit, wildhair, and your photos and videos show you to be highly attractive. Although the internet allows us to cast a "wide net", someone with the gorgeous mind that you have can--and will--find the person you are meant to be with right in your own backyard. Like a photographer who "sees the world" though angles and with a lens that most of us cannot see, you will need to see your neighborhood at new dimensions. The guy rolling a head of lettuce at the grocery store, the bus driver dropping off your son, the postman having you sign for the package, the person reading Salinger at the library--they are more than just "filling-now-hungry later" Chinese takeout. They are super people, like you (and Mancub); and they are right there.<br /><br />Pretend you have a camera (or bring your real camera), and look at every single person as photo-worthy; study them for who they are, and you will feel not only a bond before you even meet them, but you'll feel empowered to go up to them, and say "hi". You have it all, wild. You are a complete package, and that special person is right there close to you.Coolkayaker1https://www.blogger.com/profile/16480679419271233314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-65941645306110666882010-02-21T08:14:25.741-06:002010-02-21T08:14:25.741-06:00I'd say to anybody... take a chance & meet...I'd say to anybody... take a chance & meet him. Nothing ventured, nothing gained....Let him come to you. It worked for me. <br /><br />Otherwise you'll always be wondering what if?<br /><br />It's like THE BLASTERS sing in TROUBLE BOUND:<br /><br />I'm old enough to know the score<br />But I'm young enough to want more, more, more!....<br />Ya see that guy looking fine, fine, fine,<br />I'm gonna throw him a good-time line<br />If he bites, I'll reel him in<br />If he don't I'll throw my line againCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218663055459606810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-7032464633839527462010-02-20T16:19:12.458-06:002010-02-20T16:19:12.458-06:00Well...got you beat ! I've been single for 17 ...Well...got you beat ! I've been single for 17 years !!! It DOES suck & I'm tired of it too ! I want to spend the last half of my life having fun with someone I like....the steel-lined vault of my heart is sealed soooo tight ! I just recently started corresponding with someone on-line who is <br />3 hrs. away.....the distance thing is a drag, but not insurmountable. My heart is going pitter-pat and I can't WAIT to check my e-mail , FB, IM, etc....talk about feeling like a teenager and I'm over 50 for pete's sakes ! I plan to meet him, but I'm scared and hope that I don't sabotage it ! JulianaJuliana H.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-3023520053158922142010-02-20T15:03:55.538-06:002010-02-20T15:03:55.538-06:00Well, I feel for ya. I notice you didn't menti...Well, I feel for ya. I notice you didn't mention a name... don't be so darn coy -it's me isn't it? LOL! Haha! No, seriously, I wish I knew what to tell ya - I've been married twice and lookee where I am now.Jeff Hickmotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16024527446189594739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-6410407168283160902010-02-20T13:58:52.525-06:002010-02-20T13:58:52.525-06:00well, sister-friend, Freud would say the distance ...well, sister-friend, Freud would say the distance thing is intentional. As for me...I would jump on that plane willy-nilly. Depending upon where he is, right now airfare is relatively inexpensive. I'd say throw it out there. If he bites and buys, then jump. Your fascinations might be a fart in the wind, and when you come face to face, you realize the fart hung around in the air a little too long and stinks, giving way to the realization that singledom ass-sucking is superior to flatulence blowing A**dom! Love you, when you are ready to give your heart to a new "man-cub" he will be there with red roses, and a heart big enough for you and all that you love! ; )<br /><br />wanna hear something funny? the first post had a major Freudian slip in the first line...I actually wrote,"well, sister-friend, Fraud..." LOLMary E. https://www.blogger.com/profile/04578356883575964675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-16292060336399500402010-02-20T13:56:36.716-06:002010-02-20T13:56:36.716-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Mary E. https://www.blogger.com/profile/04578356883575964675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-62479578233894669432010-02-20T13:34:55.812-06:002010-02-20T13:34:55.812-06:00Northern, those are indeed facts that I've dea...Northern, those are indeed facts that I've dealt with in the past, too. Even with those in mind I can't help but wonder and hope to find out. There's a lot about myself that isn't appealing and he's not aware of them, either.<br />The Internet opens a lot of doors that would otherwise not be open -- All that being said, I'm so over this single, independent girl schtick. TEN YEARS is a mighty long time.<br /><br />Kat, I know that all too well. I lived with a real joker for the sake of making it work. I'm not afraid to ditch men who don't suit me. I keep on trying, though.Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00640540606897546407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-4755541361182456682010-02-20T13:30:42.466-06:002010-02-20T13:30:42.466-06:00What is that saying about wanting what we cannot h...What is that saying about wanting what we cannot have? <br /><br />Singular life is much better than plural life with a loser.<br /><br />Cling to the positives, and you have a plethora of them!AsKatKnitshttp://askatknits.stevofc.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6667863265247186336.post-2339118583710208882010-02-20T11:19:10.142-06:002010-02-20T11:19:10.142-06:00I know your feelings all too well. I have been the...I know your feelings all too well. I have been there myself before a couple of times. But keep in mind it might not really be in real life what it seems online...just an experience I am making right now.<br />I hope that you will find your Prince Charming and live happily ever after....or...you could just enjoy the fact you are single and pretty much independent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com